Wednesday, 24 August 2016

STABILISE YOUR LIFE


Always it is better to have a positive attitude rather than having a negative one. While the latter is the remarkable tone in most of the people, somehow one should overcome it. NEVER LET THE NOTE OF MELANCHOLY overpower you. Listening to sad music, correlating life’s incidents with the sorrowful scenes of the movies, frustration, being angry and lazy and self-sympathy or pity- all these are not going to help in any way. I’m not exhorting to stay away from your problems, but I’m only saying to live happily with the company of your problems.
                                  Few people have changed their woes and problems into a dull pleasure. By thinking their woes, they derive some sort of self-pity and knowingly or unknowingly they seem to enjoy it. This is not a good attitude. The only purpose of thinking about your sorrows, is providing you with ‘unyielding endeavor’ to overcome your woes. Only, motivation should be derived from your problems and not self-sympathy or any kind of dull enjoyment from it.
                                 Doing what you don’t like and longing for a happy time to come, is ridiculous and absurd. There is no such thing called as a happy time. Every minute is a happy one, but the fact is that we are not noticing it. At times, i.e., during intervals of your frustrating routines, do what you like and do what makes you happy and elated. On the contrary people convince their minds to do what they like, only during the time of a vacation which may come, perhaps, after a year of strenuous routine. This prolonged duration of doing what you don’t like, will develop a steady state of sadness in you, like a drop of poison in a can of milk. Then, even if you go on for a vacation after this prolonged period, you probably won’t be able to enjoy it to the fullest. Also, even then, you will have a sad mind and thoughts of the upcoming works to be finished.
                                    But if you stabilize your life by doing happy deeds then and there, your melancholy will be counteracted by the happiness that occurs often. This is like cleaning your teeth daily to get rid of the germs then and there, so as to avoid total decay of teeth. Enhance the intensity of happy feelings in your daily life apart from your routine.
                                   My conclusion is simple, try to live both with happiness and sadness but clear your sadness then and there with the happiness you derive from doing the deeds which you love the most.


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