
Few people
have changed their woes and problems into a dull pleasure. By thinking their
woes, they derive some sort of self-pity and knowingly or unknowingly they seem
to enjoy it. This is not a good attitude. The only purpose of thinking about
your sorrows, is providing you with ‘unyielding endeavor’ to overcome your
woes. Only, motivation should be derived from your problems and not self-sympathy
or any kind of dull enjoyment from it.
Doing what you
don’t like and longing for a happy time to come, is ridiculous and absurd.
There is no such thing called as a happy time. Every minute is a happy one, but
the fact is that we are not noticing it. At times, i.e., during intervals of
your frustrating routines, do what you like and do what makes you happy and
elated. On the contrary people convince their minds to do what they like, only
during the time of a vacation which may come, perhaps, after a year of
strenuous routine. This prolonged duration of doing what you don’t like, will
develop a steady state of sadness in you, like a drop of poison in a can of
milk. Then, even if you go on for a vacation after this prolonged period, you
probably won’t be able to enjoy it to the fullest. Also, even then, you will
have a sad mind and thoughts of the upcoming works to be finished.
But if you
stabilize your life by doing happy deeds then and there, your melancholy will
be counteracted by the happiness that occurs often. This is like cleaning your
teeth daily to get rid of the germs then and there, so as to avoid total decay
of teeth. Enhance the intensity of happy feelings in your daily life apart from
your routine.
My
conclusion is simple, try to live both with happiness and sadness but clear
your sadness then and there with the happiness you derive from doing the deeds
which you love the most.
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