The next quality that I’m going to talk about is ‘obstacle
management’. Obstacles are really not ‘resistance’ but they are a pause for you
to analyze where you went wrong. Also they are stepping stones to success.
These obstacles are your ‘holds’ where you grab it or catch it firmly to come
up in your life. Only if you cut the side branches of the tree, the tree would
grow faster. In that sense if you witness all the resistance, you can grow up
on your life like that tree. If you need to start a business or something, all
of your family members and your friends circle may discourage you, but get away
from them and do what your mind tells. MAKE SURE THAT YOU DON’T FALL BEFORE
THEIR EYES.
In this
management skill, endeavor is really important. More than endeavor ‘an attempt
or trying’ is far more significant. Keep one thing in mind, I have heard this
advice frequently: A smoothly going work is the one which should be feared upon
whereas a work having many distractions in its path, actually means it is
perfectly working. Don’t develop jealousy/ sadness on witnessing other’s
growth. Because they are like those who go to the top in the staircase without
any slip. But if they slip from a great height, they might feel the ultimate
pain and agony. But you are the person who fall at every step while walking. You are experiencing pain then and there and
so you may not feel that much agony even if you fall from a great height. This
means that you have learnt to live your life. This skill and mind setup is also
needed in ‘obstacle management’. Therefore it is better to take a decision
boldly to come up in your life. But sure that your decision is thought upon
twice before execution. Certain resistances are of no value. It is better not
to mind these valueless resistances. But some obstacles might really challenge
your will power. In that case, either try to overcome it or try to ignore it by
means of escapism.
So,
carefully steer your way that you mostly avoid these obstacles.
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